Why has an entire generation grown up with such significant issues of anxiety, poor mental health, low social skills, and many other challenges that were seemingly absent only a generation or two ago?

That’s the question address in Haidt’s latest book. As usual, there’s plenty of research, studies, and data that are trawled through to build his argument.

The short answer to the question above is fairly straightforward, but the teasing out of the details is what makes this interesting to follow. In short, the rise of smart-phones, alongside social media, and coupled with an increased fear of parents toward the outside world (addressed more directly in The Coddling of the American Mind) have together formed the perfect storm. While there are some important trends that precede the rise of the smart phone, the rapid pace in which many of the presenting symptoms caused an ‘epidemic’ (in Haidt’s words) makes this particular moment in history quite earth-shattering in how it has impacted a generation.

It’s a fascinating read, and explores some of the differences between boys and girls – how they engage and are affected by the rise and accessibility of social media – which, as father to three daughters, I found particularly helpful.

Who wrote it

Jonathan Haidt is the Thomas Cooley Professor of Ethical Leadership at New York University’s Stern School of Business

Why I read it

After reading my first Haidt book earlier in the year, I was looking forward to another. I was expecting a well researched, thoughtful presentation of some of the presenting issues among youth and children today. Thankfully, that is exactly what I got.

What I liked

It was thorough, well researched, with plenty of data and studies referenced. He presented his case well, and addressed some of the more obvious objections people might have to his conclusions.

I appreciate the attempts to provide practical help to parents along the way. Some of this felt less applicable in Australia, and some perhaps more extreme than I would be willing to go. But it was good food for thought all the same.

What I didn’t

At times, it felt a little cumbersome, and could have been shortened in some places. Personally, I didn’t need all the extensive evidence he provided, but I understand that some do, and it was appropriate to be as thorough as he was.

Major Takeaway

Smart phones and social media do a lot of harm to young people. The longer you can wait to allow them access, the better it will be for them. If I had any doubts, this really solidified for me to delay access to social media for my children for as long as possible.

Who should read it

A good read for parents all round, with plenty of practical suggestions and insights to help raise a less-anxious generation.